twice shy

Joined

• started 3 topics
• posted 257 times   see topics posted on
• send a message

Posts by twice shy

• 
  173

  Atlanta Int Convention 2014:The Big Party. Does this look like WT believes Armageddon is coming "soon"?

  by AndDontCallMeShirley in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=potrr2qxhue.

  .. if armageddon is "imminent", why is wt focused on sight-seeing, entertainment, travel, etc.

  instead of preaching and saving people??.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  I wonder how they knew it was on here; a so called apostate site ?
• 
  71

  Expect more Crazy as JW.ORG trims the fat and fills the coffers.

  by donuthole in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  when rutherford assumed the presidency of the watchtower society he instituted series of sweeping changes to the teachings and practices of the bible students.

  some of these changes were at complete odds with what had been taught previously.

  a key example was the elevation of the watchtower society as "god's visible organization on earth".

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  Far from die out, Rutherford's JW's flourished.

  Yeah, but Rutherford didn't have the internet and barely had television. I do see they are trying to push all the other sites to the 2nd or 3rd pages when the search engines pull up the results for J....... W..........s.

  They are trying to commandeer the internet during this theocratic warfare. They have been conditioning the sheep for months or more to obey them blindly.

  The good book says walk by faith. It doesn't say by blind faith through the teachings of deceptive men.
• 
  72

  I am on the edge of a freak out ..... I think???

  by DATA-DOG in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so the rc really sucked, but i made it through.

  the propaganda was mind blowing.

  i don't know if the crap will be available on the official website or not, but hopefully it gets leaked somehow.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  Hang in there. This too shall pass. Plus, you do love you too much to hurt you right? Btw, your daughter is a huge part of you too.

  It is so sad how they divide the families all in the name of labeling someone as being spiritually strong or weak. You are way stronger than that. You were strong enough to learn the truth about them. Your freedom is a huge win. You just have to ask yourself what is needed to make this a win/win. You might be surprised what you come up with once you take a step back and regroup.

  Another poster suggested you not make a major decision when you are emotional. Great advice. If your wife can't see that you are a good provider, awesome father, and you've been loviing her in abundance just to stay with a raging lunatic, than...................

  Lovingly be assertive and do take the lead and don't let go. You could let her know that it's easy to judge until you are in that person's shoes. The wtbt$ follows a one size fits all mantra that is completely unrealistic. Remind her that you live in the real world and that you haven't found any company that will accept watchtowers or awakes in lieu of cash.

  I'm not sure if you still believe in GOD, but all things are possible through Christ.

  Be well and keep a healthy mind.
• 
  30

  Boiling mad-need to vent!

  by 3rdgen in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i have had to remove my rant because hubby doesn't want the jw realatives to retaliate again..

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  After services at another place of worship I was driving by and decided to stop by the hall. I think I really wanted to see if I recognized all the levels of dysfunctional and procdures to indoctrinate and keep them in blind submission.

  The mood- was just as cold and distant as it was when I attended reguarly.

  The topics-still inappropriate for growing children.

  The judging- know it all persona that everyone else is unworthy and still teaching the great family divide. It was actually said that parents could be a bad example for their children.

  The attendance- way down and the parking lot only 2/3 full.

  It was just creepy as I immediately recognized how they steer the meeting to their liking which totally justifies that it's not being directed by Jehovah's holy spirit. Visiting reassured me that I had made the better decision.

  Had a feeling that they had knew I had been on here and worship hoping. (LOL)

  Gosh, still trying to overcome how blind I was. Geesh!!
• 
  20

  Everybody is doing it !

  by new hope and happiness in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  postmen, accountants, window cleaners, pop-songers- even you!

  yes these days everybody - and anybody - seem to be leaving the jehovers witnesses.so why should you be left out?.

  there was a time when you had to have performed some terrible service to the g.b?

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  @ wild thing- Yes, no other personification to date has summed up my feeling of freedom as complete as the Reading Rainbow butterfly.

  NHH- I know, right. I sat there today feeling so sorry for the ones still there. I thought I was lost when I left and boy now can I really see how lost I was, as they still are.
• 
  30

  Boiling mad-need to vent!

  by 3rdgen in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i have had to remove my rant because hubby doesn't want the jw realatives to retaliate again..

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  After my experience today I am convinced that current Elders live here too.

  So sad it not the haven it could be due to miserable disobedient ones.
• 
  18

  my parents gave my addess to the elders without asking me

  by besunny in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  so my folks went to the meeting today and somehow i got brought up and they gave them my address so they can call on me because i'm inactive,i am upset about it because they didn't ask me first,i told my parents i wish they hadn't of done that without asking me first and my dad's response was are you not baptised?

  and i said yes when i was 17 and i don't want to talk to anyone (i'm 51 now) and want to avoid any discussions that may cause me to lose my relationships with family that is still in,,so now i feel my successful fade will be jeapordized.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  Huge violation, but manageable. You can handle it.

  They probably have them terrified you will not make it to paradise.
• 
  20

  Everybody is doing it !

  by new hope and happiness in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  postmen, accountants, window cleaners, pop-songers- even you!

  yes these days everybody - and anybody - seem to be leaving the jehovers witnesses.so why should you be left out?.

  there was a time when you had to have performed some terrible service to the g.b?

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  NO REGRETS!!!!!!

  I actually went back and listened to the same talk I had heard several times before we left, but this time it had another twist. WTH??? I felt so many different emotions, but not one was regret. I saw so many truly unhappy people in Jehovah's house. I seemed to be one of the only people with a smile and who was genuinely happy.

  Even sitting there shunned: They had no power! It phased me even less than before and before it didn't bother me one bit.

  Did I mention I have no regrets. Also, everyone is not doing it, but if you choose to do it...ENJOY life and all of it's truthful promises.

  I was designed to be happy serving GOD and free thru Christ. I have no regrets leaaving the negative, bloodsucking, rrepetitive, unloving society.
• 
  17

  As a parent, did you ever have a swimming pool and invite neighbor kids?

  by 4thgen in

  1. social
  2. family

  being 4th generation, i realize that am socially stunted, in regard to those that are not jws.

  i am forging ahead and endeavoring to build a life outside of jw's.

  i am trying as i can to socialize my child to make friends and be a normal kid.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  4thgen- You're so very berry welcome.

  @Lois- great story.

  I was having a great laugh reading your story while thinking of when the pool guy fell into the pool in mid winter.

  Hey, thanks for the reminder about the deep end. We also do a tread water test which is sort of a game for the deep.
• 
  173

  Atlanta Int Convention 2014:The Big Party. Does this look like WT believes Armageddon is coming "soon"?

  by AndDontCallMeShirley in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=potrr2qxhue.

  .. if armageddon is "imminent", why is wt focused on sight-seeing, entertainment, travel, etc.

  instead of preaching and saving people??.

  1. 
  2. 
  3. 
• 

  twice shy

  ---WT simply copied it.

  They seem to be copying a whole buch of wordly things. They have the kigdom melodies with voices of real people singing. They have ballroom dancing in the hall now. They have Elders inviting young ones to th stage to sing songs (mimicking a choir). They have greeters or people opening the door saying "welcome to the party" and so forth.

  Totally not the Watchtower we grew up with. What's really going on? WOW!